Posts Tagged ‘Psychosynthesis’


Hi Everyone. It has been an interesting time since the last Newsletter. My most recent book, “The Way Through” was shortlisted for the Ashton Wylie Book Award for Body Mind and Spirit, so I was away up to Auckland to participate in the Oscar like presentation that keeps everyone on their toes until the last moment. I was up against some really well known New Zealand authors this time, one who had already won the most prestigious Montana Book Award, so I felt honoured to have made it onto the shortlist. I did not get the first prize with the money, but nevertheless am grateful for the fact that both my books have been seen to be worthy of shortlisting in this award which is the most generous award in NZ. That said, I am pleased to be back into the day to day life of Dunedin.

I have often struggled to define my work in short sentences, so I was thrilled to read the article that I share with you below from Alberto Villaldo, the main initiator in the West of the Inca tradition of the Munay Ki of which I am a part .   My other modality, the most elegant ‘psychology of soul’ that has been my profession for the last 25 odd years is a therapy for the future. Its basis is the process by which we define the opposites in our psyche that cause us to be in inner and outer conflict, and work towards finding what I call the AND, or the synthesis that defines a new way to perceive life and deal with the growth challenges that are always present as part of our ongoing development. This process awakens awareness of parts of us that we have overlooked as we have plummeted backwards and forwards in the ever futile process of the ‘either/or’ decisions and thinking. By opening ourselves up to the possibility of ‘more’, we encourage our physiological brains to expand into excepting a greater awareness of feedback around us and the possibility of a third, or other option.

This dance of opposites is what the population at large have been trained into.  It helps us see both sides but unfortunately does not assist us seeing beyond them. It has long been my contention that to continue the evolutionary process of the human species, going beyond where we currently are, is essential. So clients come to me caught between the either/or of the conflict inside them that creates the outer reality of their lives through the choices they have made. As we live in linear time, the consequences of those decisions arrive after the choices have been made, and it is when the crisis of those consequences hit that people usually seek my help with them. Training them to find the AND and expand their range of abilities and focus helps them to see options that are new and a different way of seeing their issues. The new choices they then make will manifest in the future sometimes quickly, sometimes more slowly, depending on the degree of change that needs to take place in their lives to clear a space for the new to take up residence.

This process has the potential to completely change the way these people think and view life. It is a joy to behold when that occurs. What the article below points out so well, is that this process actually brings about physiological changes in the brains of those that ‘get it’. They permanently develop their pre-frontal cortex and expand the abilities of their brain to create new neural nets. It takes a little while of this work for that to occur. Indeed the training of a lifetime is not achieved in one session. However, once the point where the expansion has taken place, the client can never totally revert simply because their brain has now changed, not just their mind.

For me, this work is not only about individuals. As we are all part of the human collective, what changes one, eventually changes all as that development permeates the collective unconscious.  As such, all who engage in the work of self change are in the business of the evolution of the species. If any of yo would like to know more about my work on this level, please feel free to contact me. My sessions are 90 minutes long because of the depth to which we sometimes need to go, and are $80 for that time. I have a few spaces currently available for that work, or the Munay Ki initiation.  Please feel free to pass this Newsletter on to anyone you feel would benefit from it.

Talking about passing things on. Debbie Pratt of Evolve Trust has asked me to pass on a link to their Newsletter also. Many of you may already be on it but for those that are not, click on:

http://www.evolve-hdt.org/

OK, that’s it for this month. Good things are happening. Beliefs are formulating that will change the species. Some of them are found in the writings above and below this line. Take Care of Yourselves, Love Yourselves, And use Everything that comes to you to you advantage. There is learning everywhere. Blessings Jay Sparrowhawk Ray
The New Brain

(An excerpt from Alberto’s new book Power Up Your Brain, The Neuroscience of Enlightenment, with David Perlmutter MD)

In the 17th century, James Ussher, Anglican Archbishop of Armagh and Primate of All Ireland, published a treatise that identified the date on which God created the world: the evening preceding Sunday, October 23, 4004 b.c.e. on the Julian calendar. Although his chronology was based on the patriarchal lineages described in Genesis and inaccurate from a scientific perspective, the Archbishop was not totally wrong. Today, while we dismiss the good Archbishop’s claim as a flight of religious fancy, he did approximate the date on which the gifts of the prefrontal cortex of the brain were becoming available for large sections of humanity at the dawn of civilization and the invention of writing

But this self-awareness didn’t happen overnight; rather, it took countless generations for the prefrontal cortex to become functional enough to warrant a circuitry connection with the older parts of the brain. In fact, fossil evidence of the earliest changes in this part of the brain dates back 2.5 million years ago, during the Pliocene epoch, when an early hominid called Australopithecus africanus lived. The enlarged cranium of A. africanus—a member of the “Great Apes” family, which includes humanswas more like that of modern humans than his immediate predecessors.

This means that the artists of the Altamira cave and the hunters of the Pleistocene epoch who lived 20- 50,000 years ago had the same brain structures we have today. Yet most members of the species lacked the nutritional support and mind-body disciplines that would allow them to experience artistic creativity and scientific discovery. This is why only a few isolated individuals awakened to the potential of the prefrontal cortex. Indeed, the gifted crafted their great works of art during secretive ceremonies deep inside caves.

With the end of the last Ice Age 10,000 years ago, when abundant and brain-rich food supplies became available, the prefrontal cortex began to stir. During the late Neolithic period, starting around 7,000 years ago, our ancestors initiated horticulture, which ended the need to follow and harvest food from a nomadic herd. They domesticated cattle and sowed grain crops and ground the grain into cereal. They developed a curiosity for science, exploration, and perhaps even love. And they conceived of transoceanic travel; for example, Micronesian navigators built sailing canoes in which they navigated the open ocean for hundreds of miles, using only the stars for reference and arriving at islands that were not visible from their point of departure. It was around this time in history that writing and city-states emerged in many geographically disconnected societies around the globe.

At that time, as civilization emerged in the Fertile Crescent in western Asia and the sprawling city of Mohenjo-Daro rose along the Sarasvati River in what is now Pakistan, the dietary staples of the political and religious leaders came from the Himalayan rivers and the Mediterranean Sea. These were fish and mollusks rich in docosahexaenoic acid (DHA), a brain food that has become increasingly scarce in the human diet of today. DHA provided the neuronutrient boost that brought the previously installed prefrontal cortex’s software online. : Is it not possible that the benefits of a DHA-rich diet explain why a great Master—Jesus of Nazareth—chose simple fishermen as candidates wise enough to be his apostles, his “fishers of men”

However, while the prefrontal software was already installed in all humans of the time, the masses, though capable of tapping into the wisdom of this brain, were still struggling between two mind-sets—the old and the new.

The Old Mind-Set versus the New Mind-Set

To truly understand the conflict inside the human mind, let’s compare the power of the prefrontal cortex, or new, higher brain, with the prowess of the old brain. The old brain perceives the world as a frightening place, filled with rivals competing for the same scarce resources. To this brain, what matters most is survival, and it is always ready to fight or to flee. Considering that the old brain developed in mammals at a time when large, stomping dinosaurs still roamed, it is no wonder that these survival mechanisms were firmly embedded in the core of those small, fuzzy creatures that we developed from.

The old brain in humans gave rise to the belief that the spirit world is populated with fierce gods who demand sacrifice and that the physical world is prey to invisible forces that are to be appeased. In many mythologies, the earth was populated by titans, giants with extraordinary powers, who had to be defeated. The early Greeks, for example, identified 12 Titans who ruled the earth during the legendary Golden Age. In the King James Bible, God tells Moses of “a land of giants [who] dwelled therein in old time.”1 In Greek mythology, the Titans were a race of older gods whom the Olympians banished to the darkest depths of the underworld in the War of the Titans.

The old brain seeks magical and religious explanations for natural phenomena, be they the formation of mountain ranges or the course of rivers or the tempest of storms. Legends of the Inka tell of the four original beings who could move mountains and establish the course of rivers with their bare hands. Zeus, the king of the sky, wielded a thunderbolt that he periodically used to wreak havoc on the earth.

With such mythic precedent, the old brain righteously claims, “My god is stronger than your god,” and believes that only those of “our faith” have been chosen for salvation, while everyone else is a pagan or a heathen destined for a hellish experience in the afterlife.

The new brain, however, understands that we do not have to live in a continuous state of threat. It knows that we are not struggling to survive in a hostile world haunted by death. It comprehends, rather, that we are all interconnected, that we can practice compassion by “turning the other cheek” and “loving our neighbors as we love ourselves,” and that physical “death” is really an opportunity to return to a heavenly realm—a precept that lies at the core of the three Abrahamic religions, Judaism, Islam, and Christianity.

But even this mind-set is a matter of consciousness. At first, only those living in monastic communities and among religious orders attained this insight of the ways of wisdom. Meanwhile, the older mind-set in the majority of the populace continued to be tempted by the ways of fear. This mind-set continued to seek wealth and justify greed, while the newer, higher mind-set called out to the ways of love and artistic expression. These two, seemingly opposite callings have plagued humanity for millennia—and continue to do so. The disparity will only be resolved when we can turn on the truly beneficial neural programs inherent in the prefrontal cortex.

It is clear that our reasoning abilities, rooted in the more evolved brain, are not enough to prevent our suffering or give us the opportunity to create a more habitable, peaceful, and sustainable world. Indeed, if reason had ever prevailed over passion, the story of humanity would not be written in blood.

At this point in history, our species is in need of the next great opportunity offered by our prefrontal cortex, which will allow us to entertain the ancient notion of a web of life in which all creatures, and even inanimate matter, are interconnected as part of a field of information and energy. To experience enlightenment and learn to interact with this cosmic web, we must begin by healing that part of our bodies that allows us to dream a new world into being: our prefrontal cortex.

Mitochondria and the Feminine Life Force

Intricately linked to the ability of the prefrontal cortex to come fully online are the mitochondria—the powerhouses of your cells and the feminine life force referred to by shamans. Mitochondria are the conductors of the genetic orchestra that regulate how every cell ages, divides, and dies. They wave the baton that helps dictate which genes are switched on and which are switched off in every one of our cells. And they provide the fuel for establishing new neural networks. And all of the mitochondrial DNA in your body is inherited solely from your mother’s lineage. That means that the source of energy that sustains your life, is derived exclusively from the women in your family tree—your matrilineage.

Hi Everyone. We are on the threshold of the Night of the 6th day of the Mayan Calendar which arrives on the 7th November through until November 2010, when the morning of the 7th and last day occurs. I thought it might be a good idea to find some references for you to have a look at. It might give you a perspective on what to expect. They are listed below.

My take on this is as follows.  A plant flowers (morning of the 6th day we are now exiting). There is beauty and abundance of growth for those plants that survive the huge process of coming out of the seed and becoming plants. For some that haven’t accessed the nourishment they needed, they wither and die, or struggle on but produce little in terms of flowering. On the human level, those that have taken care of themselves and their consciousness, probably are coming out of a period where things have been good: relationships have flourished, projects of long standing have prospered, health has stabilized. For those that have not done what they could to provide themselves with inner growth in the years before, they probably experienced the collapse of plans, etc. That time is approaching the end. The next cycle is a cycle of ‘night’ energy. This means in the plant world, the flowers wither and die on the stem. They have to, to allow the seed within to grow, for it is the seed that provides ongoing new life, and are actually the fruit itself. Some seed falls and becomes new growth in the next session. Some provides nourishment by being eaten (us, birds, insects etc). This metaphor can now be applied to ourselves to get a bit of a picture of what is to come over the next year. That which has lived out its use in our lives, will need to be let go of , to make way for a new beginning (which will not arrive until the morning of the 7th day next year). Ways of being that might have served us in the past, will not do so in the  future. This could apply to ways of working, ways of thinking, ways of earning a living,  pet beliefs about life, or just about anything that has reached the end of its shelf life. This could be hard if we have an investment in holding on to these things/people/events. The best we can do is recognise that holding on will only make us miserable, but change nothing. Acceptance and becoming aware of the new seeds stirring within us is the way to handle this: graciously! It is a time of waiting for the seeds to grow. Its not a time for impatiently ‘making’ things happen. Its no good ‘tugging on the shoots’. Nurturing, loving patience will win the day. It is possible that some whose work is done will leave this life, making way for those in whom the new is bestowed. On a world stage, we are probably in for a rough ride as outlined in the articles and websites below. We cannot really go back to economic growth, because we do not have the planetary resources to do so, so despite the positive spin from the political spin-doctors, and media, it ain’t gonna happen. Co-operation with each other and a sense of community is what will get us through all that. Grow veggies and share them. Help neighbours do what they cant. Stand by each other.That sort of thing. What we are able to shed, will provide a clear view of the possibility hidden within. And when the new day dawns, we will see what we will see before us.

Now, “The Way Through” my latest book is at the printers as we speak. It looks great and I am really pleased to have put out there a means by which people can get the groundwork for self development, and personal change (as long as they put it into action that is). For those of you that have pre-committed to purchase, it will onlt be a little while now. For those of you that have been putting it off, now is your last chance to commit to get the discount. The book will retail at $45. Pre-order discount gets it to you for $36 plus post and packaging for those of you that don’t live locally enough to  arrange pick-up. So contact me on sparrowhawk@spiritflight.co.nz straight away and register your binding intention to buy this great book. Further information and to view the cover, see http://www.spiritflight.co.nz/the_way_through/index.htm

Also, I will be running the first module of the Psychosynthesis Self Development course next June- Sept 12 weekly classes of 3 hours and 2 one-day workshops for $650. This will cover what is essentially Part 1 of the book. I am taking registrations now, and it is filling nicely. Don’t wait as I will only be taking a small group as always. Payment can be arranged over time leading up to course commencement if necessary.
I am also offering Munay Ki initiations on a one-on-one bases from Carnegie Cottage now. Please give me a call on 021379104 if this interests you. Munay Ki workshop series of three will commence March 2010.
Bless you all. Sparrowhawk

References for 6th night of Mayan Calendar:

1) The Sixth Night (Nov. 8, 2009 – Nov. 2, 2010), one last period of Dark in the cycle follows. In the plant’s life the flowers wilt and die setting the stage for fruit development or of seedpods that will dry. This is what happened to the Maya civilization right on queue. Throughout human history there have been conflicts and revolts during this period, the most recent of these having been the Viet Nam War.

2) http://www.calleman.com/content/articles/RebirthCelebration.htm

3) 6th Night of the Mayan Calendar begins on November 8, 2009From this perspective, where we are approaching the end of cyclical changes and the highest quantum state of the universe, it is also logical that the economic meltdown that we are now in is not merely a “recession” or a “depression”, such as we know to have been precipitated in the past by NIGHTS in the calendar. The decline is instead the beginning of the end to the cycles of the economy. Yet, since we know from the study of the Mayan calendar that the time periods when the economy shrinks are the NIGHTS we can make some predictions as to how this end of the economic cycles is going to play out. The first pulse of bringing the growth economy down thus came with the fifth NIGHT and led to a rapid decrease in growth, a fall in stock values, and increases of lay-offs and foreclosures. We are currently in a period in between such NIGHTS, the sixth DAY (see Figure 2), when the same processes are continuing more slowly and may even temporarily be slightly reversed. Around the time that the Sixth NIGHT begins on November 8, 2009 we may however expect that the meltdown intensifies and the US dollar collapses and with it the established monetary system in the world. Many things may trigger such an event, but it is important to understand that whatever triggers it, and this may be some kind of political event, it is the energy of this NIGHT that will bring it about. This incidentally, is also why it is so important what will be made of the rebirth energy of the second half of the sixth DAY.

We can only imagine what such a collapse will mean, but I feel it is clear to everyone that the consequences for our every day lives will be very far-reaching. Because of the hardships many may come to lose faith in this Creation or think that we are being punished. I look upon it differently: The consciousness of the Galactic Underworld is already preplanned to set in a protective mechanism for the planet by first stopping the growth, which is what any cancer doctor would do before any healing could take place.2 As the reader may now realize we have come to a point where the discussion of the end date of the Mayan calendar is a critical issue since how we relate to the future will directly depend on it. This is neither academic hairsplitting nor irresponsible New Age fantasies. Those that advocate the evidence-based Mayan end date of October 28, 2011 may in fact advice people to prepare themselves for this further economic meltdown beforehand in the sixth NIGHT. Those that talk about December 21, 2012 are however, consistently with their logic, likely to continue to make projections on this fantasy screen in the future. What these people in effect are saying to people is “Do not prepare yourself for the New World now! Wait until the shift comes December 21, 2012!” since they do not recognize any quantum shifts before this point in time. To know the exact end date is then a matter of paramount importance to people, because it is their only way of knowing what quantum shift they are experiencing in the present moment. While many people advocating the December 21, 2012 date are simply jumping on a bandwagon to create some visibility for themselves (and sell various products) I feel it is time that they consider what kind of responsibility this implies also for other people. It is probably not an accident that the first major Hollywood movie, surely planned to confuse people about the Mayan calendar and tout the December 21, 2012 date is scheduled to be released in November of 2009 as the sixth NIGHT begins. The ruling media will then use the December 21 2012 date to manipulate the truth and of course there are always some that are willing to play along. It is quite easy to see in whose interest it is that the Mayan calendar in this way is projected to a time in the future when all alignment with it will be too late.

As the established international monetary system collapses in the sixth NIGHT things can go essentially in either of two directions. It will go either in the direction of a grass roots organization of a new economy without banks, interests or growth serving to create a world without dominance. A collapse of the international monetary system, especially if it is linked to a moratorium of all debts, holds the potential of paving the way to a world that is truly egalitarian, based on willful cooperation and where greed will not destroy the world. This of course precludes the existence of a banking and monetary system organized in the interest of a minority and driven by the craving for abstract values rather than human needs.

I think however that it would be naïve to think that such an implementation of a New World according to the cosmic plan would happen without resistance. Some want to hold onto power over others. To many more the downfall of the established order of dominance would be shocking because it would ruin their experience of security in a world that they have become accustomed to. The bankers, governments, medias and ruling establishments world wide will then naturally seek to set up a new single global currency and remain in control, which they are very well prepared for. This especially the case if people are unaware of the evidence-based Mayan calendar and are able to see this difficult period as part of a process designed to lead to a new world. I am however convinced that the upcoming Universal Underworld will bring a new unity consciousness carrying a bliss of just being and love and compassion for all things just the way they are. Thus, things may not become “better” in the sense they were spoken of in the old economy, but life will be more enjoyable because of a new level of consciousness in which things are perceived in another way. Thus, in the years ahead we are in for a confusing mixture of seemingly conflicting developments. A critical aspect of preparation for this is the knowledge that the evidence-based Mayan calendar ends October 28, 2011, which at least gives people a benchmark for the rhythms with which things will evolve even though it will take a certain time for things to settle also after this.

The vision that is emerging for the time ahead is thus neither that “the world is going to an end,” nor that “we will all be happily flying” at a certain preset date in the future. Instead, we see a fairly complex scenario based on the best evidence that we have for an understanding of the future. It has much in common with the difficult birth scenario for the “New Jerusalem” as this is presented in the Book of Revelation. As this book points out this  is however not a world for everyone and it is a scenario that almost certainly will require spiritual strength and integrity to endure. I do not want to add any religious overtones to this discussion, but it seems clear that everyone who is aspiring to enter this new world must sincerely seek the truth and avoid simplistic explanations.

Even if the Mayan calendar thus is universal and fundamentally connected to the Book of Revelation it is nonetheless important to know how the contemporary Maya see their end date. Naturally, some of them are happy that their calendar has received worldwide attention and may just believe what the archeologists have been telling them, which is December 21, 2012 (The actual Long Count upon which this date is based went out of use among the Maya a long time ago and so this date has been forwarded to them by modern archeologists). But more authoritative sources such as Don Alejandro Oxlaj of the Council of Elders are not just jumping on the bandwagon. As anyone who has seen the interview I made with him two years ago (available on DVD from Mayan Majix) he rejects the December 21, 2012 date as a miscalculation (Something that at the time was actually a surprise to me). He also carries the prophecy of the Thirteen Baktuns and 13 Ahau, consistent with the October 28, 2011 date (which is 13 Ahau). Unlike myself he however does not specify an end date, even though we do agree that the last katun shift (beginning of the last 7200 day prophetic period) took place in 1992. Around this katun shift at February 10, 1992 we can also very clearly see that major events, a quantum shift, shaping the whole world took place: The end of the Cold War and the collapse of the Soviet Union (December 25, 1991), the institution of the European Union, (February 7, 1992) and the launching of the World Wide Web (August 1991). By the time of the katun shift advocated by the December 21, 2012 people (John Jenkins says April 1993 in the “Doomsday” documentary on History Channel) the new world was thus already established. Also in the future the people embracing this end date will thus always be in the backwater of what is really happening in the world. This demonstrates the utmost importance of the end date and that those who want to be consciously part of the coming quantum shifts ahead and surf on the waves of creation that these generate will miss that opportunity if they reject the evidence based Mayan calendar with its end date of October 28, 2011. If you ignore the evidence and listen to the December 21, 2012 “alignment”3 prophets this is likely to have very serious direct consequences for your own life and how you approach the future. With the acceleration of time in the Galactic Underworld the difference of 420 days between the two end dates is literally as big as that between day and night.

4) http://www.mayanmajix.com/art024p.html

Positive statements make low self-esteem even worse

DESPITE WHAT all those self-help books say, repeating positive statements apparently does not help people with low self-esteem feel better about themselves. In fact, it tends to make them feel worse, according to research.

Joanne Wood of the University of Waterloo in Ontario and two colleagues conducted experiments in which they asked students to repeat statements to themselves such as “I am a loveable person” – then measured how it affected their mood.

“From at least as far back as Norman Vincent Peale’s The Power of Positive Thinking (1952), the media have advocated saying favourable things to oneself,” the researchers wrote in a recent issue of Psychological Science. “At this moment, thousands of people across North America are probably silently repeating positive statements to themselves.”

But in one of their studies involving 32 male and 36 female psychology students, the researchers found that repeating the phrase did not improve the mood of those who had low self-esteem, as measured by a standard test. They ended up feeling worse, and the gap between those with high and low self-esteem widened. The findings did not change even if participants were instructed to focus on how the statement might be true about them, as they were in a second study.

The study results “suggest that for certain people, positive self-statements may not only be ineffective, but actually detrimental”, researchers wrote.

Rob Stein June 24, 2009

The Washington Post

From Sparrowhawk:
I have long taught that enforced PMA (positive mental attitude) is no substitute for understanding and accepting the truth within us and changing the patterns that manifest as dysfunctional behaviour, ill-advised choices, and uncomfortable consequences. Indeed mental manipulation of this sort serves only to assist us to deny the feedback that is right before our eyes in our feelings, and encourages us to ignore the shadow side that holds so much understanding and healing for us if we will but venture there.

It has been very convenient for society as a w/hole to encourage us in this misinformation, resulting in our chanting ” my marriage is great” instead of choosing a new partner, repeating ‘money is coming to me’ as we cower at the thought of changing our poorly paid job. Staying put, when we need to move, and moving when we need to stick with it, is no solution to what ails us and affirmations won’t change that. Indeed, Sondra Ray of the Loving Relationship Training back in the 80’s used to say that “Love brings out its opposite”. Just like a hose in a blocked drain, before anything can permanently change, the dysfunctional must be flushed out, and new choices must be made. Magic wands work in the hands of magicians. We all need to be that in our own lives. Not by self delusion but by self acceptance: by courage to explore what doesn’t work in us, finding its roots in our upbringing, and then following through with new choices. This formula will work with new consequences hot on the heels of your new decisions. A new life is created by your own new awareness and understanding of what works (or hasn’t) for you. Magic!

Denial is magic too. Black magic~! It surrounds issues in mists and it clouds that which needs to be brought out into the clear light of day. It manifests from our unconscious exactly what will dis-empower us most. And who is doing it? Well, you are, of course! No blame here. Blame is as useless as balls on a cow, to misquote a well used Kiwi-ism. Whose responsibility is it? Yours. Whose fault is it? No one’s! While you are busy apportioning blame and guilt-tripping others you are making yourself into a victim. What you could be doing instead is seeing how it came about and making some changes to what you use your adult power to create for yourself from here on in. Having said that, there’s a need to get anger out of your system first. Have the rage, and the rave (to yourself, out load) but then move on to making new choices, armed with the knowledge of what needs did not get met for you in the old ones. Childhood is a powerless time. We don’t have the physical size, dexterity, or mental aptitude to make choices for ourselves. We spend years relying on people that can only guess at what we need and view us through the eyes of their own dysfunctional childhoods. All we can do about that is learn how to do it differently for ourselves based on what they couldn’t do. But to do that, we have to go looking. We have to turn over the rocks of our childhoods. We have to be prepared to see the yukky stuff that made us who we are so that we can make us who we can become.

Papering it over with affirmations and false optimism ain’t gonna do that, my friends. Courage and hard inner work will, though. And maybe not as much as you imagine. It’s amazing how quickly things shift once you shine the clarity of adult power on them. But we do have to make a commitment to the greatest work of all – self-discovery! And it’s life long. You don’t need a quick fix. You need a life long commitment to evolution of the species. Starting with yourself.  That’s not about wallpapering over the nasty bits with pretty statements. That’s about following the path of honest self-appraisal.  By the way, most affirmations are said to try and counteract our inner fears. The more we affirm its Ok, the more we fear that maybe it ain’t! Better to follow the fear to where it began and empower ourselves with the skill and knowledge we need to cope with any outcome.
Well that’s me for this month. If you need sessions, I might be able to fit you in somewhere, but know that its not something in which I will wave a magic wand and hey presto! all better.  And one won’t do it. It requires commitment to your journey and gaining the skills that will stand by you for a lifetime. That takes time and patience to turn over the rocks of the past so that they can reveal the pounamu inside, week by week. You are a taonga (treasure) waiting to emerge. How long that takes depends on what’s inside, and what needs to get shifted to reveal it.  Travel well. Blessings Sparrowhawk 021379104